About Me
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it’s tiring, isn’t it— trying to be enough in a world that keeps shifting the goalposts. they say: be driven, but don’t try too hard. be soft, but not too open. feel things, but don’t let it show. and i’m just here, trying to be honest without falling apart. trying to stay whole in a Read more
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How would you describe yourself to someone? I see myself through an “I am what you see” lens. People make sense of each other in that first instant of judgment, so if you think I’m amazing, then that’s the version of me you’re experiencing. If you think I’m arrogant, that’s real too. I carry Read more
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The Intentional Courtship Method No More Games: Rules for Real Romance “Love isn’t an app swipe or a spark. It’s a home you build together, one room at a time.” TL;DR: If you want real love, not temporary thrills—read this. I’m playing the long game. Short Version: I practice intentional courtship – building love like Read more
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This was a word prompt from a week ago… posting today thinking that I had posted it long ago. The modern dating landscape often feels like a high-stakes audition where everyone performs their most polished version of themselves. Swipe right, craft the perfect text, plan elaborate first dates—all while desperately trying to determine if this Read more
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Are you seeking security or adventure? I’m turning a simple either-or question into something much more nuanced by recognizing that adventure and security aren’t opposites – they’re interdependent, and both require something the prompt doesn’t even mention: connection. Most people would pick a side and defend it, but I saw through the false binary to Read more
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In the glow of hospital lights,I counted the seconds between her breaths.My thumb kept tracing small circles on her palm,like if I memorize every line,every soft curve,it might keep her here just a little longer. 10 years.That’s how long we spent building a life together,hands steady, day by day. The coffee in my cup kept Read more
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What are you most excited about for the future? 🤔 … These prompts walk a fine line between community building and digital navel-gazing. WordPress clearly wants us clicking, commenting, and connecting with other writers, but their strategy feels borrowed from the social media playbook where personal revelation equals engagement. The problem is that we already Read more
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What’s your definition of romantic? … Romance is the alchemy that transforms ordinary moments into magic. It’s when someone’s presence makes food taste better, colors look brighter, and the world feel more alive. It’s not about grand gestures—it’s about the way your heart skips when they look at you, the way time stops in small Read more
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Are there things you try to practice daily to live a more sustainable lifestyle? I think my approach to sustainability is probably different from what most people would expect. I’m not composting or driving a hybrid or buying organic everything – though those things are great if they work for you. My version of Read more
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